Ambivert | Hidden in plain sight





  1. a person who has a balance of extrovert and introvert features in their personality.

I’m sure there’s a high chance that somewhere in your life, someone asked if whether you’re an introvert or extrovert. For some, it might be easy to answer, but maybe you’ve found yourself uncertain at times. 

Your personality traits define how you associate the world around you. Personality traits develop at an early age and are established by early adulthood. Many things about you will change with time, but your personality, at its core, will remain the same.

An extrovert is someone who receives energy from being around people. They like to be out-and-about engaging with others. They may also be called a “people person”.

An introvert is someone who receives energy from peaceful reflection. They’re happy spending time alone. Often, they need some alone time to recharge after being around a few people.

Introverts are occasionally accused of being shy or antisocial, but those aren’t introverted traits. Someone who’s an introvert may enjoy people, but prefer small groups. They’re usually not a fan of small talk, preferring deeper and more meaningful conversations.

Now we get to ambiverts

Ambiverts are right between introverts and extroverts. 

There’s a great benefit of being an ambivert. Because they don’t lean too much to either side. It can also make them highly adaptable, depending on the social situation. This allows them to connect much easier and more deeply with a variety of people. 

If there are many people, no problem, flip the switch and you’re in ‘people mode’. 

Not many faces around today? Feel like a loner? No worries, you can enjoy this alone time just as much.

There’s an incredible strength of being an ambivert. You might have natural people skills, allowing to engage in small talk and have deep meaningful conversations, and you don’t mind being alone.

I’m sure there are many of you, after reading this, might say “that’s exactly me!”

Just like you, I never considered myself to be either an introvert or extrovert. I always knew I was somewhere in between, but was never sure if that was a real ‘thing’. Maybe I was just a very confused introvert. Until I stumbled upon the term ‘ambivert’ a few years ago. 

Here are a few signs that you might be an ambivert.

The ability to adapt behaviour

Adapting to the person or situation seems to come naturally to ambiverts.

Depending on the situation. Extroverts welcome small talk, while introverts will try their best to avoid eye contact in order to avoid any kind of human interaction. Ambiverts might analyse the situation depending on the person, then decide if they want to engage in the conversation or not.

I think there might be many introverts out there wishing they had the abilities of ambiverts only to have the courage and capacity to endure social gatherings.

Naturally empathetic

Most extroverts might jump right in and offer their solutions without hesitation, while an introvert might just sit there, listen, and take it all in. An ambivert on the other hand, as you might have guessed, takes a page from both books. They will listen to what’s being said, think it through and ask a few thoughtful questions in order to try and help.


When there are a few introverts and extroverts at a gathering, they tend to stick to their own groups. An ambivert is usually the one who will join these two groups together. They have the ability to help introverts by making them feel comfortable by starting a conversation.

Good listener and communicator

Extroverts enjoy talking, and introverts prefer to observe and listen. Ambiverts know when to speak and when to listen.

You feel at ease in a social setting, but also enjoy your alone time

Ambiverts can feel high on life in a crowd or just enjoy a quiet evening on the couch.

Maybe a friend shows up at your house and says, “let’s go we’re going on an adventure”. Most extroverts will be out the door right away without hesitation. Introverts are likely to run away and build a pillow fort to keep these humans out. An ambivert will most probably evaluate the situation, consider the pros and cons, then make a decision. 


I’ve found that being an ambivert has helped me create a good balance in my life. Doesn’t matter what the situation, I’ll always be able to adapt to it.

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  1. Wow! I learned early morning that I’m an ambivert. Merci beaucoup for the new self-knowledge. Your photography is so wonderful AND your written words are so wise.

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    1. Hello fellow ambivert! I’m so glad I could introduce the term to you! Have fun sharing it with others 🙂
      Thank you so much for your kind words and appreciating my work. It means the world to me! 🙂
      Have a wonderful week!


  2. I guess I’m also an Ambivert, but maybe more leaned towards being an introvert Idk actually I have great examples of being a total extrovert as well lol But I realized a lot of the time when I’m in a big gathering I can go from being all noisy and really engaging to a silent turtle inside her shell in less than a minute 😀

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  3. Stepped into this blogging world just a month ago and am glad to find someone just like me – an ambivert! I’ve always felt that am neither a total nerd nor a social butterfly, but somewhere in between both of these two terms. Thanks for sharing this 🙂

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  4. It is nice that you have developed awareness in figuring out this side of your personality. You are right, it is helpful and I am glad this has given you balance in your life. Markus and I are both introverts, but we can people all day too as long as we get our space after.

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  5. While I was reading this piece I felt like this was just describing me. Till now I was always confused about my behaviour as to why I would chose to behave differently under different circumstances. Thanks for clearing this up. 🙂

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  6. This is very interesting. I know someone who performs for a living and identifies as an introvert due to the amount of alone time they need and enjoy. It’s so interesting how multi-faceted we all are.

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